I didn’t vote for him. But for heaven’s sake get over it!
Who knew going into this that candidate Trump was, to put it mildly, inarticulate? Who knew that he speaks before he thinks? Who knew that he uses catch phrases and adjectives from another era? Who knew that he was used to being in charge and doing things his way without consulting anyone? The answer to each of those questions is EVERYONE knew! And for half the country its why they didn’t vote for him. But for the other half it had little to do with why they did, in fact, vote for him.
No one voted for Donald Trump because he is a great orator or a diplomat.They voted for him because he was fearless. They voted for him because they were sick and tired of the lies. They voted for him because something about his total disregard for the establishment gave them a sense that maybe he could say and do what they were, and still are, aching to say and do.
My father is deceased. He was a self-educated, self-made entrepreneur who became a millionaire through hard work and single-mindedness of purpose: to be a success. He was bighearted, brash, somewhat misogynistic (a sign of his era and upbringing), inarticulate when he needed to be articulate, lacking in both tact and sophistication. He was a father who believed his role in life was to provide for his family and he did that with excellence. He was a brilliant salesman, an invaluable mentor who inspired me to be the best I could be. He had an enormous ego, didn’t trust government and was certain he was always right. He was larger than life.
Its because of my father that I understand Donald Trump.
I repeat: I didn’t vote for him, I don’t like his manner of expression, I think he’s egotistical and arrogant to a spectacular degree. I also think he has a big heart, loves his family, his country and finds himself having awakened slightly beyond his wildest dreams.
I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I want to give him time to realize the responsibility he holds in his hands. I want to allow him what I would want for anyone in new and unexplored territory: time to get their bearings without having to watch their back.
The hunt for Donald Trump is the act of a poor loser. The Democrats, Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton underestimated the damage they had done to the country in the preceding eight years. Damage to trust and unity. Damage to the middle class. Damage to a belief in our own goodness. I don’t know if President Trump, or anyone, can repair the scope of that damage. But what I do know is that those who drove us apart, who turned us into “us vs them” are still at work.
So, if I have to choose between those who have proven themselves to be greedy and deceitful or one who may yet rise to the occasion, I choose the latter with faith that anyone and any behavior can have a pivot point under the right circumstances. I suspect finding oneself the leader of the Free World holds the potential for being such a pivot point.
There is much more at stake than the making or breaking of a President. We are at stake. The nation is at stake. It cannot take take more division. I ask those who mock Trump for his need to win if destroying a Presidency will be worth the price of destruction of a nation. And if their answer is “yes” then their true intention is revealed for what it is: take down America. If that is the case, I prefer “Make America Great Again.”